This question has been creating a havoc in my brain and it is quite stupid, actually but nonetheless, here it goes.
Suppose you want get a dog for yourself. You can choose between 2 puppies, same breed, same looks, everything is almost the same except their temperament. Dog A is sweet and gentle, friendly with everyone. He loves being with your friends, even the ones you don't get along with. Your friends seem to love him more than they probably love you and are always saying that you are one lucky girl.
Dog B on the other side is a moody dog. He loves you. Is loyal and faithful. But can't get along with your friends at all. His true, loving side is reserved just for you. It is like he is a totally different dog when he is with you.
There are 2 things conflicting here. One is the need to make the world see why you feel the way you do, the other being the need for somethings being only for you.
What would you choose?